http://aruetiise.com/2009/12/16/certainty/ Games, Tech, Star Wars... What Else Does A Person Need? Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:18:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://aruetiise.com/2009/12/16/certainty/#comment-21 Sithdoom Sun, 20 Dec 2009 21:19:55 +0000 http://aruetiise.com/?p=113#comment-21 Your greatest ally is time. Right now, when you tell her these things, they are just words. In time, she will see them, and feel them. The old saying goes something like "don't say it, do it." That may be what she needs. She has heard you say it, now, you just have to show her, as well. Be patient. It may not feel like it, but this relationship is still new. Give her time. As far as changing her, and worrying about her being that way, I think you are ignoring something that you said in this post. "I’m with someone who makes me feel a thousand different kinds of happy. As I look down the road, I only see these things getting better." This is the "Happy-Thought" that you need to hold on to. Remember that in spite of these things, she DOES make you happy. Perhaps, you too should stop worrying so much, and just try being happy for a change. Your greatest ally is time. Right now, when you tell her these things, they are just words. In time, she will see them, and feel them. The old saying goes something like “don’t say it, do it.” That may be what she needs. She has heard you say it, now, you just have to show her, as well. Be patient. It may not feel like it, but this relationship is still new. Give her time. As far as changing her, and worrying about her being that way, I think you are ignoring something that you said in this post. “I’m with someone who makes me feel a thousand different kinds of happy. As I look down the road, I only see these things getting better.” This is the “Happy-Thought” that you need to hold on to. Remember that in spite of these things, she DOES make you happy. Perhaps, you too should stop worrying so much, and just try being happy for a change.

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